Earlier this year in May, Bill and Melinda Gates announced their divorce after 27 years of marriage. The couple said “we no longer believe we can grow together as a couple”.
Now, the NY Post reports new details about why Bill Gates and Melinda really got divorced. During a Q&A at a billionaires’ “summer camp,” Bill was said to have explained that it was his fault.
Money can certainly make things easier in life. However, it’s never going to be the one thing that truly makes you happy. Sure, money can buy you a nice house, a fancy car, and new clothes. But when it comes to relationships, friends, experiences, and life lessons?
Well, it simply doesn’t help as much.
Bill & Melinda Gates
If there’s one thing that money can’t buy, it’s love. Love is something that simply can’t be bought or replaced – and maybe that’s what makes it so wonderful to experience.
If you were to ask Bill Gates and his ex-wife Melinda, money probably made things easier for them. After all, they became one of the world’s wealthiest couples during the rise of Microsoft.
Even so, they’ve never really been the type of show off with a flamboyant, luxurious lifestyle.
Bill and Melinda raised a wonderful family of three children, all of whom are now grown up.
When the couple met, Bill Gates had already built Microsoft from the ground up, creating a billion dollar company. They had created software from IBM, and by 1983, Microsoft was a global company with offices in Great Britain and Japan.
Became a millionaire at age 31
At the time, it was estimated that some 30 percent of the world’s computers ran on Microsoft’s software.
One could say that Bill Gates was a wonder child from the beginning, and he really was. After graduating from Seattle’s exclusive preparatory Lakeside School in 1973, Bill scored 1590 out of 1600 on the college SAT test. Later on, he even dropped out of Harvard to focus on his Microsoft business.
Bill Gates became a millionaire at age 31, and in 1987, he became a billionaire when Microsoft’s stock hit $90.75 a share.
But 1987 also held something of more significance for him: it was the year he met Melinda French, who recently started working at Microsoft.
“She had other boyfriends, and I had Microsoft,” Bill said in the Netflix miniseries Inside Bill’s Brain. “We were like, ‘Hey we are not really serious about each other, are we? We are not going to demand each other’s time.’”
Melinda added: “I was new to Microsoft, there were a lot of men there and you are still looking around.”
Bill Gates asks Melinda out
The couple’s romance started when they met and talked at a dinner party in New York City. Soon after, she beat him at puzzle competitions, which pretty much took things to a new level.
In her 2019 memoir The Moment of Lift: How Empowering Women Changes the World, Melinda Gates recalled that the couple “talked over dinner” that evening. Days later, Bill asked her out while standing in the parking lot.
“He struck up a conversation and asked me out two weeks from Friday,” she wrote. “I laughed and said: ‘That’s not spontaneous enough for me. Ask me out closer to the date’ and gave him my number.
“I think he got intrigued when I beat him at a math game and won the first time at Clue, the board game where you figure out who did the murder in what room with what weapon.”
So, Bill and Melinda started dating. About a year later, Melinda blurted out the fateful words.
“…sort of to our surprise, certainly my surprise, we said, ‘Hey, I love you.’” Bill said. “And she said she loved me and then it was like, ‘Wow, and now what is going to happen?’”
Married in 1994
The romance turned into a relationship, and soon, Bill Gates wanted to make a very big decision. The Microsoft founder actually had a pro/con list in their bedroom about whether he should ask Melinda to marry him.
“His whiteboard had the pros and the cons of getting married,” she recalled.
Ultimately, it wasn’t a tough decision for Bill Gates. He soon asked Melinda to marry him, and in 1994, the couple tied knot in Lanai, Hawaii. At the time, Gates was 38 and Melinda 29.
Just two years later, the couple welcomed their firstborn child, Jennifer. Three years later, son Rory arrived, and in 2002 daughter Phoebe was born.
“Some people see Melinda as the heart of our foundation, the emotional core,” Bill Gates wrote in their blog. “But just as she knows I’m more emotional than people realize, I know she’s more analytical than people realize.”
Bill Gates & Melinda – charity work
Melinda Gates left Microsoft after nine years, and instead focused on their charity foundation. Gates praised his then-wife for helping him with the work load of running Microsoft. Melinda, meanwhile, made sure to let people know that they were very equal.
“I think people have a certain view of Bill, because he was a high-charging CEO running Microsoft,” she told USA Today. “I think people must think, ‘Oh well, Melinda must not really have equality with Bill.’ Actually, I have total equality with Bill. But it took a while for us to get there.”
As recently as 2019, when Melinda Gates released her book, it looked like things were going very smoothly between the two. However, on May 3, 2021, Melinda and Bill Gates filed for divorce.
Melinda wrote that the marriage was “irretrievably broke” when providing a reason for the divorce, this was according to the filing obtained by TMZ.
Bill & Melinda Gates – divorce
“After a great deal of thought and a lot of work on our relationship, we have made the decision to end our marriage,” Bill and Melinda said in a shared statement.
“Over the last 27 years, we have raised three incredible children and built a foundation that works all over the world to enable all people to lead healthy, productive lives.
“We continue to share a believer in that mission and will continue our work together at the foundation, but we no longer believe we can grow together as a couple in this next phase of our lives.”
For many people, this probably came as a big shock. But remember, the most important part is that everyone’s happy, and hopefully, Melinda and Bill can move forward as a family, even though they won’t be married anymore.
Following the Gates’ statement, their daughter Jennifer also put out a statement. She’s currently a second-year medical student at Stanford University.
Details of divorce
“It’s been a challenging stretch of time for our whole family,” she wrote in an Instagram Story, as quoted by US Magazine.
“I’m still learning how to best support my own process and emotions as well as family members at this time, and am grateful for the space to do so. I won’t personally comment further on anything around the separation, but please know that your kind words and support mean the world to me.”
The petition for the divorce between Bill and Melinda was filed in King County Superior Court in Seattle, Washington in early May. On that note, an interesting detail has come to light. The notes in the filing say the couple have a “separation agreement.” However, as reported by Business Insider, there is no prenup.
The separation agreement is usually signed by the two parties at the end of the marriage. Therefore, this will lay out the terms of Bill and Melinda Gates’ split. Details of their contract weren’t included in the filing of the divorce, but it will most likely show how they are to divide the assets, according to the NY Post.
A separation agreement lists all of Bill and Melinda’s rights, as well as obligations, including things such as child support and custody. This type of document is signed between them and doesn’t involve the court.
In the divorce filings, Bill and Melinda Gates asked for their real property, personal property, as well as debts, to be split according to their separation contract, per reports.
Bill Gates & Melinda – no prenup
It’s easy to predict that Melinda Gates won’t be needing any spousal support. The Gates family’s net worth is estimated to be more than $150 billion, so both parties will probably be pretty content with the outcome, even though a divorce is never a fun thing to experience.
Since May, things have been quite quiet. But now, new information about what really happened comes to light.
During the exclusive Allen & Co. “summer camp for billionaires” last week, Bill Gates spoke during an “off the record” Q&A about the divorce, the NY Post reports.
The host, CNBC’s Becky Quick, asked about the divorce as well as the future of the Gates Foundation, which both Bill and Melinda have been heavily involved in.
According to an attendee, Bill Gates basically referred to the fact that the divorce “was his fault.”
“He did seem a bit emotional about it,” the attendee said. “He might have been on the verge of tears.”
New details about divorce
According to the attendee, Bill Gates didn’t use the word “affair” about what ended his marriage with Melinda. Another person attending the Q&A said it was “very moving.”
Even though some people attending the Q&A found it moving, everyone wasn’t as convinced. Another guest described Bill Gates as appearing “agitated” throughout his stay at the “summer camp,” not wanting to talk to people attending.
“Bill Gates was pretty much a total a**hole,” one person said, as reported by the NY Post.
Sometimes, couples can realize that the spark isn’t there anymore, and that they’ve fallen out of love. When this happens – though difficult – it’s usually best that a pair go their separate ways. To that end, we wish Bill and Melinda all the happiness in the future, and hope that they feel comfortable in this decision.
We really hope that Melinda and Bill Gates can have a peaceful divorce. And of course, we wish them all the best in the future!
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