Mom of conjoined twins answers question everyone is asking

Conjoined twins Abby and Brittany Hensel have amazed millions for years — but now, the question everyone’s been dying to get answered is finally making headlines: Could these sisters actually become mothers?

The conjoined twins first became household names in 1996, when just six years old, they appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show. Years later, their lives were documented in the TLC reality series Abby & Brittany, which followed their journey through college and into adulthood.

“People have been curious about us since we were born, for obvious reasons,” the twins said in one of the first episodes. 

“But our parents never let us use that as an excuse. We were raised to believe we could do anything we wanted to do.”

Facebook / Abby Brittany Hensel

Decided against separation

The twins share a circulatory system and all organs below their waist. Abby is in charge of the right arm and leg, while Brittany controls the left side.

Abby and Brittany’s parents, Patty and Mike Hensel, decided against separation surgery after doctors warned the girls’ chances of survival were slim, as reported by “Today.”

“How could you choose one child over the other?” their father Mike said in a 2001 interview with Time magazine.

And looking at how the conjoined twins are doing today, we can say they seem happy.

Recently, news broke that Abby quietly married Josh Bowling, a nurse and US Army veteran. Though their wedding was kept private, public records show they tied the knot back in 2021.

Joshua Bowling / Facebook

Since then, photos reveal a happy couple enjoying life and traveling together.

But the big question remains: can Abby and Brittany become mothers? Many assume their unique conjoined condition would make pregnancy impossible, but their mother, Patty, has shared insights that fuel hope.

In the documentary Joined For Life, Patty revealed that both twins have expressed a strong desire to become moms one day. She also explained that their shared organs are functional, suggesting motherhood might be within reach.

Throughout their teenage years, Abby and Brittany openly talked about wanting children while also valuing their privacy.

In a documentary filmed during their teenage years, the twins shared their intention to become mothers someday, according to The Telegraph.

“Yeah, we are going to be mums one day, but we don’t want to talk about how it’s going to work yet,” Abby said at the time.

Joshua Bowling / Facebook

They’ve always emphasized their individuality, even as they share a body, and their shared dream of motherhood remains a deeply personal goal.

But there are plenty of questions beyond the possibility of children that people are curious about — one common one being: how do the twins eat?

When it comes to meals, Abby and Brittany sometimes eat separately but usually prefer to share a single meal, with only one eating at a time. They each have their own digestive system and stomach, but since they share a bladder and excretory system, it can be simpler to coordinate eating this way.

Never openly discussed their intimate life

Despite huge public interest, the twins have never openly discussed their sex life.

Because the Hensel twins share one set of genitals, they would both feel any physical touch in that area, explained Alice Dreger, a professor of clinical medical humanities and bioethics at Northwestern University’s Feinberg School of Medicine, writing in The Atlantic.

As for whether both experience orgasm simultaneously, Dreger admitted, “we don’t know.”

She added that because sensation varies greatly from one twin to another in different parts of the body, it’s “hard to guess how any conjoinment will turn out in practice.”

Some have speculated that dicephalus twins might share orgasms since they have the same sexual organs, nerves, muscles, and blood vessels.

What about kissing — if one twin is kissed, does the other feel it?

Professor Dreger mused, “The biology geek in me wants to say the happy hormones from a good kiss probably reach both brains. But the student of human nature in me says when your sister gets kissed and you don’t, it’s quite possible the unhappy hormones end up standing at the gate.”

Based on her research, Dreger believes conjoined twins likely have less sex than average—not only because finding a partner is more challenging, but perhaps because they may not need romantic partners to fulfill sexual needs as much as most people do.

As Abby embarks on this new chapter with her husband, fans and followers continue to wonder about the future. Will motherhood be part of their incredible journey? For now, Abby and Brittany are focused on living life on their own terms — inspiring the world every step of the way.

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