Jennifer Lopez jokes about her marriages after Ben Affleck divorce

Jennifer Lopez has addressed her personal life on stage, breaking her silence in a playful exchange with a fan just weeks after news of her divorce from Ben Affleck was confirmed.

The singer and actress, currently touring Europe on her This Is Me… Live tour, paused during a performance in Bilbao, Spain, on Tuesday (July 15) to respond to a fan in the crowd who appeared to propose to her, either with a sign or a shouted question.

Jennifer Lopez’s response was quick-witted and telling. Repeating the proposal for the crowd to hear, she smiled and said: “I think I’m done with that,” sparking cheers and laughter from the audience. “Yeah, I tried that a few times,” she added before continuing with her show.

The lighthearted moment, which has since circulated on social media, appeared to reference her multiple past marriages and recent split from Ben Affleck.

Lopez’s Relationship History

For those unfamiliar with her relationship timeline, Lopez has been married four times:

  • Ojani Noa (1997–1998): Her first marriage ended after just one year.
  • Cris Judd (2001–2003): The pop star and dancer-turned-director divorced two years after tying the knot.
  • Marc Anthony (2004–2014): Her longest marriage to date. The two share twins, Emme and Max.
  • Ben Affleck (2022–2025): The pair rekindled their early 2000s romance and wed in Las Vegas in 2022. Lopez filed for divorce in August 2025, citing irreconcilable differences.

Affleck has remained relatively quiet about the split but addressed it briefly in a March 2025 interview with GQ, describing the situation as “embarrassing” and “vulnerable.”

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez at the premier of her “This Is Me…Now: A Love Story” in early 2024. Credit: Monica Schipper / Getty Images.

“There’s no scandal, no soap opera, no intrigue,” he said. “It’s just a story about people trying to figure out their lives… there was no big event, no dramatic moment. It’s more like a couples therapy session.”

He added that he avoided sharing too many details because “it feels vulnerable” and acknowledged that both he and Lopez were navigating their own internal struggles during the relationship.

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