From poverty and bullying to the Oscars – the actress who refused to break

She was the product of a teenage pregnancy, and her family was dirt poor.

There were countless nights she went to bed hungry.

But today, that struggle is a distant memory for this celebrated actress, an Academy Award winner whose star now shines brighter than ever.

Her father was not her father

With her striking red hair, sea green eyes, porcelain skin, high cheekbones and flowing fiery locks, this actress stands out as a rare presence among Hollywood’s sea of blondes and brunettes.

She has earned many honors, including an Academy Award and a Golden Globe. She has also been nominated for a Primetime Emmy, two Tony Awards, and two British Academy Film Awards.

But her path to this spotlight was anything but easy.

This actress was born on March 24, 1977, in Sacramento, California.

She came into the world as Jessica Howard, the child of a vegan chef named Jerri Hastey and a firefighter named Michael Hastey. Her parents were both teenagers when she was born and by all accounts, the young girl wasn’t born into a privileged family.

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She had previously shared with the Irish Times in 2017 about her “very difficult upbringing,” saying, “I did grow up with a single mother who worked very hard to put food on our table. We did not have money.”

“There were many nights when we had to go to sleep without eating,” she recalled. “It was a very difficult upbringing. Things weren’t easy for me growing up … Because of my mother, I do always try to think about how something must be for someone else. I’m not so interested in myself. I’m interested in other people.”

Bullied and told she was ”ugly”

Also, just so you know, her firefighter dad was actually her stepdad — her real father was Michael Monasterio, a rock musician who wasn’t around when she was a kid.

She also had a younger sister, and as children, the two “played outside until it was dark,” she recalled in an interview with The Guardian. They would wish “the light would stay longer, so you didn’t have to go home.”

For years, she remained private about her childhood — and understandably so.

Later in life, she remembered being bullied as early as age 8 because of her red hair and freckles.

”I was told every day at school that I was ugly,” she told Glamour. ”And that no one wanted to be my friend. The most cruel things.”

Tragically, in 2003, her sister died by suicide at their biological father’s home, and Michael Monasterio later passed away in 2013 from bronchitis.

When her father passed away, the award-winning actress didn’t attend the funeral and didn’t speak publicly about his death. She later described the attention around it as “very difficult.” She also revealed that no father was listed on her birth certificate and there’s “no proof of anything.”

Financial hurdles

While most lot of the women around her had kids as teenagers, our star knew that wasn’t the path for her. She found her true passion at just 7 years old when she saw a production of Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat.

”As soon as I saw that I was like, ‘Oh my god, this is my job, this is what I am,’” she told The Telegraph. ”I’ve always had an active imagination, and I didn’t do very well in the public-school system, but that was a complete aha moment for me.”

And just like that, her dream of becoming an actress was born.

She pursued her dream of acting despite financial hurdles, working at a performing arts school just to take classes there, because, as she explained, “there was no way my family could afford it.”

“There were people that saw I was struggling as a kid, and they helped me,” she added. “And that’s why I ended up where I am now.”

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A huge inspiration was her grandmother, who took her to her first play and always encouraged her to pursue what she loved.

”I think she saw that I needed an outlet or something to find my people, in a way, and be creative,” the actress shared with The Hollywood Reporter.

The star also credits Planned Parenthood and access to birth control for giving her options. “It had a great impact on my life because it gave me choice,” she said.

After high school, she landed a spot at the prestigious Juilliard School in New York— but the dream came with crushing pressure.

”I am the first one in my family to go to college and I felt a great responsibility… It was very expensive. The first two years it was really tough on us,” she told The Hollywood Reporter.

Robin Williams saved her

Her path changed thanks to Robin Williams. The legendary actor, a Juilliard alum, awarded her a scholarship that covered tuition, books, her apartment, and even flights home for Christmas.

”It was after my second year I found I got that scholarship… It paid for not only all my schoolwork, but it paid for my apartment, and my books, and my flight home to see my family for Christmas,” she recalled.

Though she never met him before his passing in 2014, she sent him countless letters of thanks.

After honing her craft at Juilliard, she began her career on stage and television. Her film debut came at age 31 with the drama Jolene, but it was 2011 that marked her breakout year, with six films released, including Take Shelter and The Tree of Life.

Her performances that year earned critical acclaim, leading to Academy Award nominations for portraying an ambitious socialite in The Help and a determined CIA analyst in Zero Dark Thirty.

Her most famous role

Suddenly, the relatively unknown actress found herself right in the heart of Hollywood’s hustle and bustle.

”Walking down that red carpet with Sean Penn holding one hand and Brad Pitt holding the other, and everyone’s like, ‘Who is this girl in the yellow dress? Who is this person?’ I knew that that red carpet, after having that premiere, it would just be a turning point in my life,” she shared.

The Help was a huge success, grossing $216 million at the box office and becoming her most widely seen film to that point.

But most people probably remember her for her role in Interstellar (2014), which brought her recognition with audiences around the world. With a budget of $165 million, the high-profile film, co-starring Matthew McConaughey and Anne Hathaway, was shot primarily using IMAX cameras.

She played the adult daughter of McConaughey’s character and was drawn to the project by the emotional depth of the father-daughter relationship. Interstellar went on to gross over $701 million worldwide, making it her highest-grossing live-action film to date.

Strong feminist themes

And now you might be starting to guess who our star is… yes, it’s Jessica Chastain!

The American actress and producer has gained a reputation for choosing roles and projects with strong feminist themes. That approach has helped her escape being typecast as just a sex symbol, giving her the freedom to explore a wide range of roles across different films.

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”The part I played in Interstellar, for example, was originally written for a man,” she told The Telegraph. “Chris Nolan decided to make it about a father and daughter instead.”

She’s also aware that this flexibility isn’t universal — some roles demand a certain image. ”Of course if you need a sex object then that’s different,” she added.

Today, Jessica Chastain is considered one of the most respected performers in the industry. Speaking about her off-screen persona, Roy Porter of InStyle magazine wrote in 2015 that ”she’s an adult, which isn’t always a given in Hollywood. Unconsciously candid with her answers, she retains a sense of perspective uncommon among her peers, and has real opinions.” Porter also praised her as one of the rare actresses who is ”all about the craft.”

Marrying in Italy

Time magazine named Jessica Chastain as one of the 100 most influential people in the world in 2012. More recently, in 2021, she portrayed Tammy Faye Bakker in the biopic The Eyes of Tammy Faye, a role that earned her the Academy Award for Best Actress.

As per 2025, Chastain is a mother of two with husband Gian Luca Passi de Preposulo, a fashion executive. The two tied the knot in June 2017, according to Vogue. Their wedding in Italy was a star-studded affair, with big names like Emily Blunt and Anne Hathaway in attendance.

”He’s a gentleman,” she revealed in an interview with W magazine. ”And that’s very important to me.”

Today, the couple lives in New York City, but Chastain remains private about her personal life and chooses not to attend red carpet events with a partner.

Gian Luca Passi de Preposulo, Jessica Chastain at the ceremony honoring Jessica Chastain with a star on the Hollywood Walk Of Fame on September 04, 2025 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Michael Buckner/Variety via Getty Images)

However, in recent years, Chastain has been vocal about mental health issues, as well as gender and racial equality.

Reflecting on her approach to Hollywood, the Oscar winning actress says: “It makes me sick to even say this, but I never think in terms of ‘How do I get more things in this industry?’ I have a rebellious streak because I grew up with a lot of resentment, because we didn’t have things, like even food.”

“There were people that saw I was struggling as a kid and they helped me. And that’s why I ended up where I am now,” she reiterated.

“I don’t talk about it much, but it was really, it was not what you would expect,” she continued. “So because I come from that place, I know what it’s like. And it makes me angry. And I don’t [want] anyone else to be denied anything. In terms of a voice, being seen, being acknowledged and valued.”

And honestly… when you look at where Jessica started, it’s impossible not to be impressed by where she stands today. Coming from hardship, heartbreak, and almost no opportunities, she climbed her way into an industry that isn’t exactly known for being kind, especially to women who don’t fit the “typical” Hollywood mold.

Yet she did it. With talent, grit, and a kind of grounded humility that makes her feel so real. She’s proof that you can come from nothing, fight through everything, and still hold your feet firmly on the ground while the world calls your name.

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