We live in a world where success is about getting ahead and trying not to stand out too much. Because if you don’t fit in or are a little different from others, you’re considered “strange” or “abnormal.”
It’s a sad view of life, and it puts too much emphasis on how we look and how we compare to our peers.
Just ask Jono Lancaster, a person who’s flesh and blood just like the rest of us, but, unfortunately, has often been painfully reminded of just how cruel the world can be.
Jono was born in the UK in 1985, but he didn’t look like other babies.
He had Treacher Collins syndrome, a rare congenital disorder that caused his facial bones to develop in an asymmetrical way.
It was too much for Jono’s parents, who abandoned him just because of the way he looked.
“When I was born, my parents were in total shock. I was out of the hospital 36 hours after I was born. Social services found someone to look after me. The foster carer was a lady called Jean,” Jono recounted at the 2015 Nord Conference.
Jono’s early years were marked by bullying and a reluctance from the outside world to show understanding.
“I kind of felt like I was on my own and I felt like I was the only one out in the world that was like me. People are lucky enough to win the lottery or they become professional footballers, doctors, lawyers but I thought, ‘Why did I have to end up looking like this?'” Jono said in an interview with Adelaide Now.
Treacher Collins syndrome doesn’t affect a child’s intelligence in any way, but the only thing Jono’s bullies cared about was the way he looked.
Jono refused to give up and let the bullies win, though, and by his side, he had a wonderful woman.
Jono’s foster mother, Jean, tried to reunite him with his biological parents. But after they returned her letters for five straight years, she took the next step — and adopted Jono on May 18, 1990.
“So I get two birthdays! I used to tell other kids that my mom went to the hospital and she looked at all the babies and she chose me, whereas their parents had been stuck with them,” Jono said at the 2015 Nord Conference.
With love and care from Jean, and his own strong spirit, Jono decided to be a force for good and use his experience to help others.
Now 30 years old, Jono devotes his life to helping others around the world with Treacher Collins syndrome.
He meets children, gives them hope and support, and talks to their parents about their situation.
One of Jono’s mentees is two-year-old Zackary Walton from Australia.
Despite his young age, Zackary has already been bullied. In Jono, however, he has had a friend for life.
“When he said he was coming to Australia, we knew we had to meet him and it’s made us so happy to see Zack meet someone like him,” the boy’s mother, Sarah Walton, told Adelaide Now.
When Jono and Zackary met for the first time in November 2014, this picture was posted on Facebook — and it’s just so loevely to see.
Hear Jono tell his story in the video below. I promise, it won’t leave you untouched.
Although Jono’s story is heartbreaking, it’s also incredibly uplifting to see his strength and courage and how he uses it to help other children in the same situation.
I really hope we can help Jono’s story get more attention. Not just to inspire others, but also to give hope and confidence to others who need it. Because we all need some inspiration now and then.
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