A woman claiming to be a former Russian spy has revealed a secret seduction technique she says can make men sexually dependent on one partner, using their most vulnerable moments to keep them “only hooked on you.”
Aliia Roza, a women’s empowerment coach, fashion influencer and former Miss Asia International, claims she was trained to manipulate men while working as a Russian intelligence operative.
She says her assignments involved infiltrating human trafficking and organized crime groups before her cover was compromised and she fled Russia.
“I was taught how to seduce any man fast and easy including dangerous criminals,” Roza told the New York Post, explaining she was selected at 18 from a group of 350 students for a secret training program run by former KGB psychologists and senior officers.
She claims the program taught her to become a honeypot, an intelligence operative who uses romantic or sexual relationships to gain someone’s trust and extract information.
Today, Roza shares those alleged techniques through interviews and her coaching work.
‘Only hooked on you’
During an appearance on the Raj Shamani podcast, she described one method she calls the “anchor technique,” which she claims can create a powerful sexual attachment.
According to Roza, the key is timing. She claimed men are particularly receptive to suggestion immediately after sex, when they are relaxed and emotionally vulnerable.
Roza claimed that repeating a phrase, combined with touch, could create an association between the words, physical contact and sexual pleasure, allowing someone to trigger those feelings again later, making a target “only hooked on you.”
And she claims the manipulation didn’t stop there.
Reinforce attachment
Roza also recalled that as an operative she reinforced the attachment by convincing targets that their relationship was exceptional.
“Honey trap agents, they would say ‘we are the power couple’ and use the same things. ‘Only I can help you,’” she said on the podcast.
According to the former beauty queen, the same approach could persuade a man that only one woman could make him feel successful, desirable or confident.
‘Seven times’ before first contact
But before trying to make a man emotionally dependent, Roza says the first challenge is winning him over. In her interview with the New York Post, she explained that the key is to become a familiar face long before the first conversation.
“You first appear in their life – seven times, to be exact – before making contact,” she said, describing encounters at places such as coffee shops and gyms, alongside repeated social media interactions.
Then, she said, “pretend to be weak or alone. It triggers the hero instinct. Every man wants to feel like the rescuer.”
Lastly, she suggests the “milk technique,” which she explained is faking mutual acquaintances to appear trustworthy, “But it’s all fabricated.”
Although Roza presents these methods as part of her intelligence training, her espionage background has not been independently established, and there is no reliable scientific evidence that the anchor technique can make someone sexually dependent on another person.
Read more:
